Congratulations! You’re about to embark on one of the most amazing journeys of your life. Becoming a father is an incredible experience but also a big responsibility. However, it’s something that over three million Americans have to face. Here are five ways to prepare for fatherhood and ensure you’re ready for everything that comes your way.
Get Educated
The first step in preparing for fatherhood is to get educated. You need to know many things about being a parent, from changing diapers to potty training to dealing with tantrums. The more you know, the better prepared you’ll be. Luckily, plenty of resources help you learn everything you need to know. Here are some of those resources.
Parenting Books
One of the most common ways to educate oneself on parenting is to read books on the topic. Whether a general overview or a more specific guide, readers can provide valuable information and tips for becoming successful parents.
Parenting Classes
Many hospitals and community centers offer classes specifically designed for expecting and new parents. These classes cover everything from prenatal care to infant CPR to discipline techniques. These classes can also provide an excellent opportunity to connect with other expecting parents and build a support network.
Parenting Websites
Information is available online, from blog posts to articles to forums. Use reliable sources and consult your doctor before following any advice online.
Create a Support System
Becoming a father can be overwhelming, so it’s essential to have a support system in place. First, talk to your partner about what they expect from you and what role they want you to play in raising your child. Then, if you have other children, sit down and explain what will happen and how they can help.
Enlist the help of friends and family members who can pitch in when needed. And don’t forget to ask for help when you need it—there’s no shame in admitting that you’re not Superdad and need some assistance from time to time.
Get Your Finances in Order
Having a baby is expensive, so it’s essential to get your finances in order before your little one arrives. Here are some basic things you can do to ensure your finances are in order.
Create a Budget
Sit down with your partner and create a budget for expenses related to the baby, such as childcare, medical bills, and supplies. Also, factor in any potential income changes, such as one parent staying home or needing to take time off work for maternity/paternity leave. If you need a guide, know that the typical family in the United States spends about $61,000 annually. So try to go below that when it comes to your expenses.
Start Saving
Start saving money for emergencies and future expenses, such as college tuition. Look into opening a 529 plan or other investment options to ensure you save and plan for the future.
Consider Insurance
Review your health insurance coverage to determine what expenses will be covered for prenatal care and delivery and any potential costs for newborn care. It may also be worth looking into life insurance policies if something happens to you or your partner.
Make Time for Yourself
Becoming a father is a huge adjustment, both physically and emotionally. It’s essential to take some time for yourself during this transition period, so you don’t get overwhelmed or burnout. Set aside some time each week when you can do something that YOU enjoy, whether it’s watching your favorite sports team play or going for a run by yourself. Find a hobby that helps relieve stress, such as painting or gardening, and schedule some regular “me time” into your life to stay sane during this chaotic time.
Start Looking the Part
Lastly, and what’s often overlooked, is that becoming a father also means changing your physical appearance to match the role. So here are some ways to start looking at the part.
Get Rid of That Dad Bod
Having a dad bod is not something to be proud of. Instead, fathers should strive to be good role models for their children, including staying in shape. Start by making small changes, such as taking the stairs instead of the elevator or going for a walk after dinner. Then, establish a regular exercise routine and stick to it.
Invest in Dad-Approved Clothing
Being a dad doesn’t mean sacrificing your style. Instead, invest in classic, dad-approved clothing items, such as button-down shirts, khaki pants, and sensible shoes. And, of course, you can never go wrong with a luxury belt or two. A nice rodeo belt buckle is one way to show off to your future friends (and kids). It also represents that you are a working man with pride and style.
Being a dad is something many men look forward to, but it can also be a daunting responsibility. You’ll set yourself up for success in this new role by taking the necessary steps and preparing for fatherhood. Good luck on your journey to becoming a fantastic dad!
